‘All Passion Spent’ but New Obsessions Found.
Reading one of Jane’s delightful A to Z blog posts at Beyond Eden Rock, I decided to explore the monthly ‘Author Reads’ in the Virago Modern Classics group on Library Thing. I wasn’t sure what LibraryThing was or how it worked (to be honest, I’m still a little in the dark on both of these) but from the bit of mooching around the site I have so far enjoyed, it appears to be a vast and wondrous universe of book-love just waiting to be explored. Bearing in mind my current ban on book-buying, I intend to fill that void with creating a virtual archive of my own personal library. If that doesn’t fill up every waking hour for the foreseeable future, there’s a wealth of book reviews to read, and other people’s libraries to nose around to my heart’s content – bingo!
Luckily for me, the Virago Modern Classics group’s chosen author for this month is Vita Sackville-West, whose books have been languishing on my shelves, as yet unread – until now that is. Of the three I had to choose from, I was drawn to All Passion Spent (1931) and quickly became engrossed in Sackville-West’s wry observations of family dynamics as siblings Edith, Herbert, Carrie, Charles, William and Kay gather together after the death of their father, Lord Slane, to discuss what is to be done with their mother.
Mother was a changeling, they had often said politely, in the bitter-sweet accents reserved for a family joke; but now in this emergency they found a new phase: Mother is wonderful. It was the thing they were expected to say, so they said it, several times over, like a refrain coming periodically into their conversation and sweeping it upwards on to a higher level. Then it drooped again; became practical. Mother was wonderful, but what was to be done with Mother? Evidently, she could not go on being wonderful for the rest of her life. Somewhere, somehow, she must be allowed to break down, and then, after that was over, must be stowed away; housed, taken care of……
Of course, she would not question the wisdom of any arrangements they might choose to make. Mother had no will of her own; all her life long, gracious and gentle, she had been wholly submissive – an appendage. It was assumed that she had not enough brain to be self-assertive. “Thank goodness,” Herbert sometimes remarked, “Mother is not one of those clever women.” That she might have ideas which she kept to herself never entered into their estimate.
While the children make plans for their mother’s future, Lady Slane has other ideas. Having sacrificed her entire life to the service of her husband and children, she has no intention of being parcelled around between her duty-bound children. In fact, she feels the time has finally come for her to do her own bidding. She rents a house in Hampstead, that she had set her heart on twenty years previously, and banning visits from all the overly energetic younger members of the family, settles down to enjoy her remaining years pleasing herself, and enjoying the company of a select few eccentric gentlemen – Mr Bucktrout, Mr Gosheron and Mr FitzGeorge, and her trusted elderly maid, Genoux.
As Lady Slane remembers her girlish dreams of being an artist, dreams which remained unfulfilled due to her duties as a wife to an ambitious and successful husband, the novel brings to mind Virginia Woolf’s A Room of One’s Own, which covers such similar territory. While the novel is full of dry wit, the novel quietly, but powerfully demonstrates the sacrifice made by women for their families, both in the upper eschelons of society, like Lady Slane, and of those in service, like her maid, Genoux.
I don’t know why, but I didn’t expect Vita Sackville-West to be so very funny. I expected earnestness and more than a touch of anguish. I think it was Lucy’s post about Vita Sackville-West’s penchant for writing in a turreted castle that did it. She must have been made of sturdy stuff if she could still see the funny side of things after tackling a tower’s worth of stairs first thing in the morning. I take my hat off to her!
This sounds wonderful! Like you, I have some VSW languishing in the TBR, which I will have to dig out. Sadly, I don’t think this is one of them. I’ve not used LibraryThing, but if its going to add further temptation to my book buying, maybe I’d better steer clear….
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It was a real surprise. It’s funny how you can have an idea of what an author is going to be like, and when you finally give them a whirl, they’re not at all what you expected. I fear Library Thing will be a mixed blessing on the book front. However, I figure that if I spend all my time cataloguing my books on there, it might leave me less time to pine over all the books I’ve yet to love! 😉
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LT is a lovely place – you can have a catalogue of your books there (though mine is woefully out of date) and also hang out on some wonderful discussion groups. Glad you’ve joined us! 🙂
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It does look like wonderland! I’ve yet to have a proper nose around, and I need to set up my profile and things, but I have a feeling I’ll be spending a lot of time on there! 🙂
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All I know of VSW was what I read in Adam Nicolson’s Sissinghurst, she seems an intriguing type of person, almost like a character in a book, which leads on to all manner of existential questions,
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Haha, doesn’t it just? Now I’ve got one under my belt, I’ll definitely read the other VSW novels I already have, and when my book ban is over, I shall look up the Nicholson book too! 🙂
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I didn’t find Sissinghurst as fascinating as Sea Room, which was a wonderful book about owning three islands but then I didn’t have much in the way of context with Harold and VSW.
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Oi you, stop tempting me with books I NEED to read right now! Sea Room does look good. I’ve always had a bit of a soft spot for desolate Scottish islands since i did a spot of tree-planting on a tiny island near Ullapool back in the day. I was rubbish at tree-planting but it was utterly beautiful and I got to see the Northern Lights *sigh*
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I think I’ve got at least three of her books on my piles. I’m glad to hear she’s so enjoyable.
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Ooo, I’d dig them out if I were you! I’ve got another two to read so I’ll be spacing them out over the year, until my 2017 book buying ban is over and I can get hold of some more! 🙂
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Library Thing does take a bit of getting used to – its not as intuitive as Goodreads. if you can figure it out though the discussion threads are a bit more substantial than the ones of Goodreads.
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It did seem a bit confusing, but now I’ve thrown my hat in the ring I’ll give it a go. 🙂
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You’ll figure it out I’m sure – and the people in those groups are very helpful
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I want to re-read this at some point. Hopefully I will join the LT reading of VSW with No Signposts in the Sea.
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That’s one of the other VSW novels I’ve got, and may well try and sneak it in before the end of the month. Either way, I look forward to reading your thoughts on it! 🙂
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I’m delighted to have lured you over to LT and to know that you’re enjoying VSW too. It’s years since I read All Passion Spent and probably time for a re-read.
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What a difference a post makes! Just think, if I hadn’t read your A-Z, who knows how long VSW would have languished on my shelves? ‘All Passion Spent’ has been a revelation to me, and now I want to read all VSW’s novels and find out much more about her life. I do love the way the blogosphere can unexpectedly send you down such rabbit holes of wonder! 🙂
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I vaguing remember it was Vita Sackville-West’s mother who reported experiencing the ghostly phenomenon of the ‘clammy baby’, a small chilly ghost that tried to get into bed with women who were guests at Rufford Abbey when it was a private house. That bears no relevance to anything, but there we are. And btw, I love it when I find I already own the book I want! Forgetful me is often grateful of previous me’s shopping habits 🙂
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That is the best nugget of literary trivia I have EVER heard! Brilliant, and how utterly butterly spooky is that?
I know what you mean about being grateful for past book splurges, I’ve a feeling I’ll be so grateful for my former excessive book foraging I’ll have to start sending thank you notes to myself!
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I still recall a very happy Christmas ferretting around putting all my books onto LT. You can get an app for your smartphone and a barcode readier, which makes it easier. Happy cataloguing! I’m going to be re-reading APS next up on my book pile. Hooray! And yes, VS-W is very funny and wry, just a captivating author. Also, I have been in her writing tower. Yes I have.
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I love the idea of a bar-code reader – what fun! I’m utterly jealous that you’ve been in VSW’s writing tower.If I had a bucket list, I’d have to make that a priority trip! 🙂
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a) I can’t type today and b) the barcode reader is another app on the phone, using its camera. You do add book, the barcode reader comes up, scan the book, select the one it give you, there it is in your catalogue.
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I’m due a phone upgrade soon, so I shall be on the look-out for new apps, but this one will be on top of my list!
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LOL!!! I love that you thought she might not be funny because she was so pissed after going up so many stairs! This book sounds great. I love that her kids are trying to make her be a good granny-type, but she’s more like the woman in the cover that’s all handsy in the bushes!
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Well I always struggle to be funny after tackling stairs, don’t you? I reckon VSW must have been one of those eager bouncy khaki-shorts wearing, have-a-go gals, carrying a tennis racket at all times just in case the mood struck – she’s basically George from The Famous Five! I do love that she created an elderly female character who, having put everyone else’s needs first all her life, suddenly tells them all to s*d off, so she can do her own thing. Now that’s the kind of revolution I could get behind! 🙂
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